Stolen Moments

Like all relationships mine is not perfect. We work on it. Go through our ups and downs. I get frustrated. He gets frustrated. We distance ourselves but then we grow closer. And it seems that every time we grow closer its from a stolen moment. The early morning coffees snuggling in bed. Talking about nonsense. Joking and laughing. Seeing who can make the other smile first. The times we lock the door and hide from the world. Listening to music. Acting like kids again. Chatting away while taking a bath. Long drives to a hidden place. Sometimes he does all the talking and sometimes I do. Moments of acknowledgment and understanding. Sharing and simply spending time together. Stolen moments that I've never shared with anyone else before. Stolen moments with my best friend, my lover.
snowberry75 snowberry75
36-40, F
7 Responses Jan 5, 2013

I met this guy on Zoosk because I wanted to meet some guy, so bad. I met guys on there before. Everytime, I met a guy on there, they were who said they were, but I was never attracted to them, so it would hurt their feelings, when I turned them away. I met guys on there and I didn't like them because they were to needy and showed their muscles all the time and I don't like it. I would travel to see these guys and they would do anything to do me, but I wouldn't let them Do that because I knew they were not good guys. They had sexy ladies on their wall and I don't approve of it. One guy had a sexy Angel on their back half fire and half Heaven, so I don't like that all. I don't prove a **** at all. I had an exboyfriend into ****, so I hate it. Then I was searching on Zoosk met another guy online. We knew each other three years, but getting intimate with him ruined it all. Then I met the guy I am talking to right now. He lives twenty four hours away from me. We started talking this year on Thanksgiving time. I was so thankful to hear his voice again. We talked about his ex girlfriend wanting money from his mom, but I didn't know he had a child with her because he didn't tell me because he didn't want to loose me and I said I don't want a man that has children because the drama and that is judgmental. We talked about his whole past. I told him my whole past too. We both have done drugs in the past. We both have drank in the past. He is seven years older than me. I don't want to tell you his whole life story. I have been with about five guys that were selling drugs or doing drugs and plus they were drinking and they were trouble makers too. The other three guys liked to drink. When I met the out of the state guy he was drinking and he was really embarrassed about it. He accepted me being in a resource room. I got teased all my life for my learning disability. People would make fun of the way I looked and talked, but this out of state is crazy for me. I did send him naughty pictures and he did the same, but we were dating for a long time. We feel in love way before we started getting sexual with each other, so thankful I didn't blow it. He is everything that I want and I am every thing he wants too. He says nice things about me. The exgirlfriend's mom said they were married and I talked to Herr, but she never answered me, but they had a child together. The brother lied to me. The brother said I hope he treats you better than he treated my sister. He told me right away that he lived with her for seven years, so I didn't believe them. She ran off yo be with her family and I think she met other guys too. When he found put I was with Buddy Harris then he was chasing me. He called my grandma to reach me. He sent me sweet messages, but I got deleted controlling Buddy too. He told me I miss your voice, so I listen to your voice messages because I miss you. He is a sweet guy. I was not ready to settle down with him because it was to fast, so I dated other guys, but they were cheaters and liars, but that is what I get. I was with an abusive man and he talked me through it. I helped him get over his ex girlfriend because I just listened to him and gave him advice like he did for me. He wants to be more than friends. We use to read bible verses over the phone and that turned me on. He wanted to learn all about my faith in God and that turned me on too. He turns me on because I know he would be a good father because he has a son. He tells me sweet things everyday. I went to visit him, but we didn't have much time together. I think I am done here. Leave comments for me.

this put a smile on my face :)

Those stolen moments add up to a wonderful life! Keep stealing them! LOL

I love to read stories like this, you deserve all this happiness

thank you

This is sooo AWESOME to read, cause a lot of those happy stolen moments can add up too and make for a happy life..... I think we appreciate the good times a lot more when we go thru and make it past the harder ones....The contrast sort of gives us goals to work towards.... A lover who is also your best friend is the only way to go...♥ *happy sniff*

So very true my friend. You do tend to appreciate so much more when you've been through tough times. It's gets right deep down into your heart. Even the smallest of things. And causes you to be so much more willing to compromise, to forgive and to do what you can to melt their heart in the same way they have melted yours. To love in the true sense of the word. :)

It's that deep appreciation that keeps partners paying close attention to hanging onto it too.....Melting each others hearts is one darn fine hobby in any relationship!! I am so happy for BOTH of you!! ♥

This is really sweat. I'm glad that you have found happiness with someone.

Thank you! Although I'm learning happiness isn't simply found. It's created and appreciating that creation. ;)

It was interesting reading your transition into readiness for such a thing and I am truly happy for you. Is it the same man from months back?

That would be him. ;) I believe I have posted two other stories about him. Not sure it's been awhile since I have been able to come to EP for a visit.

Yes, I read them and you told me some stuff in PM. My comments most likely are not there anymore though, because I deleted the account, but I did comment back then.

That is too cool by the way, because from what you shared he seems like an awesome guy.

(Blush) LOL yea he's pretty awesome. He's even better with my daughter. Just for that reason alone I think I will keep him for a little while :D Lol

Yep, that is a deal maker or break for sure. I know from experience, if the kids do not get along with the guy, no matter how much you like him, it's not going to work. The teens will make sure of that, my oldest sure did.

Absolutely agree. Both my guy and I were very conscientious of that and careful. He has two boys as well. The boys worship my daughter. Which boosts her ego. She takes that role rather seriously. She smiles and says she always wanted little brothers. And they play that role rather well too. Lol it's odd how naturally they have take too each other. I think the boys like seeing Dad happy and my daughter likes seeing me happy. It's been a long road for all of us. Still a long road to go. But we are well on the way. :)

Thank you:) I grew up in a blended family myself. The man who raised me was my hero. My Dad. My hero. But not my father. It truly warms my heart to see my own daughter respond to my guy in much the same way I did with my Dad. :)

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