I Like A Confidant As Well As A Lover

I believe that the best lovers at least start out as your best friend. If you are friends than there is at least caring and compassion for each other. You also tend to know each other rather well.
The woman that I am seeing now started out as my best friend. We allowed our love to grow gradually. In fact, almost all of my relationships started out with a friend.
I want a lover that knows me and cares about me. I like skipping that whole getting to know someone awkwardness that comes with dating. I also like having a lover that I can confide in.
lyricaldemise lyricaldemise
41-45, T
2 Responses Jan 8, 2013

I like the way u think...where r u from?

I have never understood "dating". It's not something I would ever do. Why would you put yourself in a relationship with someone you hardly even know? I want to know as much as I can about them through a friendship first, let the love grow, and then learn all the deeper nuances of them through time and trust. It's the only way I can do it, at least.

I am the same way.