Someone to Share.

Someone to love, hold, kiss, make love to. Not someone to do it to, but someone to do it with. Not a one way stream of giving, or receiving for that matter, but sharing. Sharing my hopes, my dreams and yes even my fears. Someone to laugh with over the stupid mistakes I make, and help me sort out the big ones too. Someone that will come to me with their problems, knowing that I don’t have all the answers, so that we can find answers together. Yes, I don’t just want a lover, I want a friend too.

Kindamagic Kindamagic
36-40, M
26 Responses Sep 22, 2008

Me too, and i'm a girl :[

Fate has nothing to do with it, but God has. I put it in His capable hands to lead us to each other. See, in the bible, in the beginning God made a companion for Adam. Adam didn't go out to look for her, God brought her to Adam. Just as God made a special companion for Adam, He made one especially for me. I just have to let God guide her to me, and visa verse.

My guy had completely given up on the possibility of a relationship. TOTALLY.<BR><BR>Then one day (the only day I had a chance), I slipped a note in his slightly opened car window expressing my interest in him. <br />
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Lucky for me... he called. <BR><BR>~ you just never know what fate will bring your way kiddo ~

I also forgot how to, guess I'll just have to go on instinct. lol

You said exactly what I have been thinking! I had it once and hope to find it again. It's been 3 1/2 years and I'm soooo ready to move on. I'm not sure I remember how to 'hunt'...

Kinda,<br />
Your post was very sweet and heartfelt. You never know what life has to offer, until you give things a chance. Take the time to figure out what exactly it is that you want in life and go for know what they say Life is short. Don't let love get away. Love is a very rare and special gift that we should all cherish. I am very to have that as well as a wonderful friendship...

Had relationships before that I thought was meaningful, but in the end they turned out to be less than what I expected. Most of them went to ground because of me and my drinking.

Thanks to all that have shared their words of encouragement and support. This is what makes EP the great place it is. As for that special lady that I need in my life; I'm simply taking a break now to sort out what I really want from life, and giving her a chance to stretch her legs.

kindamagic:<br />
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I agree with everyone who says that it will come when you might not expect it. <br />
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In my own case, I fell hard for someone who on the surface had very different experiences and interests than mine.<br />
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But when I began talking and flirting with her, realized that we were extremely compatible with each other.<br />
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We both tried to deny our feelings for each other for quite some time until one day I abandoned that idea and I told her I was crazy about her - she and I have been building that closer relationship ever since.<br />
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I got lucky. My best EP friend is also my crush and my love in the real world, so I don't need to worry about her accepting my EP friends nor her worrying about me accepting hers because we are both pretty heavy EP users.<br />
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We were lucky to have EP as an environment to match us both up. It has been very caring and supportive of and for us for the most part.<br />
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Snowbunny1002 and I have been going through various stages of "crush-ness" since about mid-May of this year and are now looking towards more serious possibilities...<br />
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It's worth noting that getting to this point took me some time. It took me several tries before I found the right person for me, to get it right, but get it right I did, and I couldn't be happier.. <br />
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If she comes crashing through the roof there won't be much left. Concrete is a ***** to get through. :)<br />
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I'm just tired of always choosing the wrong one. My heart has been broken too many times, I don't think it can stand any more beatings.

Exactly, someone to share life with.

A partner in every sence of the word!

Well said...I would love to have this...

Thanks Mello. You and blue are an inspiration, and a reason I'll be waiting patiently.

I'm at that age where one wonders where I've gone wrong. Most of the people I know that are my age are married, have kids, have a house they have nearly paid off, and the whole package that comes with it.

how it should be,,, I haven't been with one partner.. who took advantage of the friend before them...

Me too, although one has that kinda emptiness that can only be filled by someone special.

Very true. And only some of them are worth mentioning.

"I want a friend too."<br />
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I have come to realize that there are MANY kinds of friends...

I just hope she approves of my EP friends, they helped me through some really ****** times.

Oops, now you mention it, it was em that brought money into it. Sorry mate.

If only wanting and having was a bit closer to each other. *Sigh*

I forgot about the drapes sleepless, and besides I know that direction is flawed. She disappeared remember?<br />
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Kylie, I've stopped looking for the time being, in the hope that she'll find me.<br />
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Madison, paying for it doesn't count.:)

It IS ironic that you use the term: WITH. There's a romance writer, Nora Roberts, that NEVER lets her characters say: Make love TO. It's always: Make love WITH. To is one or the other doing all the giving or recieving; With is mutual.

Yeah, Madison, for 2.50! AND... she fell back down the hill with Jack! :O

I think I'll give her the chance to do the searching for a while.