I Want a Man That Will Stick Up For Me and to Me

It Bugs Me When...

By: WyldHoney

Written on April 9th, 2008

... A boyfriend will try to see both sides of the issue and be reasonable about it. Why can't men understand that no matter if you are wrong or right you just occasionally want some back up and someone to sympathise while you vent and release those emotions. It doesnt mean you are denying any guilt and responsibility if need be but about getting rid of the anger / frustration. When I am really annoyed / upset about something I just want him to take my side while I get over it - then I'll be a grown up and decide how to handle it.

By: WyldHoney

Age: 31-35 , Female

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MinW

When things like this come up

Start off by saying I appreciate your point of view, I need to vent getting this off my chest. I know you nay want to solve or fix it, I need you just to listen and take my side of the story.

When I'm ready I'll ask for your help .

Nov 19, 2011
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WyldHoney

Yes, without a doubt.

Apr 9, 2008
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partytested

I didn't mean the other. I meant the one I'm with. Just curious if you would expect it to actually happen.

xo

Apr 9, 2008
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WyldHoney

Of course you would have to back it up! Its a clear demonstration of unconditional love. Its how you get respect from your partner, which should be more important to you than losing respect from the other person

Apr 9, 2008
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partytested

but what if you then expect me to back it up?

do I? and will you still respect me if I do?

xo

Apr 9, 2008
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WyldHoney

A certain degree of commisserating is also required. Saying things like 'how dare she, Ill get the *****, let me speak to her' is also required. Even if you totally think the ***** was completely justified.

Apr 9, 2008
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partytested

can I cuddle with you and you can share whatever you want......hhmmmmmm

Apr 9, 2008
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WyldHoney

Well now you know and there is no more excuses ;)

Apr 9, 2008
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partytested

I'm very guilty of not doing that. I to often want to fix it or justify it when in truth all I'm suppose to do is listen and let her vent.

xo

Apr 9, 2008
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