Don't Need One. I Just Want One.

I do not need a man.

I want a man.

Why, you ask, well let me tell you.

I'm financially okay, not great but who is in this economy.

I have a job, could be better but it pays the bills.

There is something about a male presence that is unlike any other comfort, comfort I need.

Nothing can better  make the the stresses of my day go away, like a slow hug and a reassuring pat on my bottom.

I would be more content. Cheerful. And maybe even more productive.

Oh, and s*x would be great yes.

A man to hold me, to love me and help with this empty feeling I have from time to time.

No competition, just working together in this life.

To love me for who I am, with all my drawbacks and faults.

To hold me, who believes in me, to make me feel loved.

To erase my fears, self inflicted scars and loneliness.

To make me want to a better woman, his woman.

To make my heart happy.

Is that too much to ask?

I hope not.


Josie06 Josie06
56-60, F
7 Responses Jul 1, 2009

You are fantasizing a tad. You talk about what you want, a pat, some sex, to take away your fears and so on. A real live man will be there when he isn't patting or sexing or taking away your fears... He has his own set of needs that you will have to address and sometimes one set of issues in your home is enough.. Celebrate your life with or without a man. Women are bad about thinking a man will fix them, but, rarely does a man fix you, you have to feel whole in yourself. Then offer your whole self to the world and a man will find you quickly.

i wait u my cute

im here wa

You express my sentiments and I'm a guy. Not looking for perfection, but connection

This is what I know and believe. I want a man who wants to be with me, and not just 'cause he needs to be...down the line yes. Eventually I want him not to be able to live without me (not literal).

Josie, I'm sure there is a hot guy out there for you, girl!

I understand. Now you've put it out there and I hope you find each other.