Too Young For a Serious Relationship?

I feel like I am a catch.  I'm not saying that to toot my own horn, but I'm somewhat attractive, I have a career, I have morals and I'm a nice person.  I'm not so goody-goody that I can't have fun every now and then, when it's appropriate, but I don't have dependency issues on any substances... good thing, right?

But I'm young, and none of the guys I meet that are my age are on the same page as me.  They all just want a fling.  I'm not a party girl and I'm not a ***** so I don't really desire to just have flings.  Everything else in my life is on a grown-up path and I want a grown-up relationship.  I don't need an engagement ring, I just want someone who likes me enough to want to have an exclusive relationship with me that there's a chance of building on.

I feel like I have to start dating 40 year old guys just to meet people on the same maturity level as me.


Thanks for the feedback.  I'm totally new to this site so I'm not sure if this is how I should reply to this.  I do like to eat, and I am slightly overweight but in the process of losing weight, halfway to goal.  But I'm always told the same thing, "you have a GREAT smile". 

But I agree with everything you both are saying.  I guess I just needed to vent.

Thanks again!

iliketoeat iliketoeat
Mar 14, 2009