Too Young For a Serious Relationship?

I feel like I am a catch.  I'm not saying that to toot my own horn, but I'm somewhat attractive, I have a career, I have morals and I'm a nice person.  I'm not so goody-goody that I can't have fun every now and then, when it's appropriate, but I don't have dependency issues on any substances... good thing, right?

But I'm young, and none of the guys I meet that are my age are on the same page as me.  They all just want a fling.  I'm not a party girl and I'm not a ***** so I don't really desire to just have flings.  Everything else in my life is on a grown-up path and I want a grown-up relationship.  I don't need an engagement ring, I just want someone who likes me enough to want to have an exclusive relationship with me that there's a chance of building on.

I feel like I have to start dating 40 year old guys just to meet people on the same maturity level as me.

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Thanks for the feedback.  I'm totally new to this site so I'm not sure if this is how I should reply to this.  I do like to eat, and I am slightly overweight but in the process of losing weight, halfway to goal.  But I'm always told the same thing, "you have a GREAT smile". 

But I agree with everything you both are saying.  I guess I just needed to vent.

Thanks again!

iliketoeat iliketoeat
22-25
Mar 14, 2009