Blown Chance

My wife had actually brought up doing it to me some years ago. We've always been pretty adventurous when it comes to sex. But I didn't think that she would actually go for it if I was in full dress. At this point she really hasn't met me, Brenda. So I said no. Maybe she would have... crap.

Maybe someday it will come up again someday. Of course, I would need to be in something sexy. A soft satin nightie, with matching bra and stockings perhaps? Maybe a little role play? Who knows? Damn, I hope I didn't blow it.

XXOO Brenda

BrendaCD BrendaCD
36-40, T
6 Responses Mar 19, 2009

bring it up again I wish my wife were that interested

It's all about trust and good communication. I always thought it would just be a fantasy for me ....I always encourage my wife to talk openly about her fantasies, She happily shares mine but rarely opens out about hers sadly......but talking about my fantasy to be taken buy a man led to her using a vibrator on me and then later still, a strap on.. She would never have even considered doing this to me without me raising it at the right time when we were both feeling horny. And when it did happen, I didn't just take the pleasure, I made sure she shared the ecstasy too!!!

Brenda, she opened the door for you, and the door is still open. It's up to you to step through.<br />
Hugs

That sucks, try to get it back,,,,or get it IN the back,side that is. Good luck. You must have a hot wife!

If you rejected (lovingly I assume) her original fantasy, she has tucked it away. You will need to bring it up. Let her take you as a man and learn to enjoy the experience. One day - tell her your true desire - honestly, Brenda may or many not be her cup of tea - but Brenda is a harmless fantasy that most wives would give at least one go at.

U messed up , now it's up 2 U 2 bring it up again . If she didn't like the idea she would never brought it up in the first place . GO 4 IT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!