Add Love

Add LOVE to the list; love, affection, closeness, and intimacy. I don't just WANT these, I NEED these, or I am nothing but a wilting flower.

Life is an empty black hole without LOVE, without TOUCH, without an EMOTIONAL CONNECTION, to another human being. Having no one to share your day, your ups and downs, your joys and sorrows. No one to hold hands with, have fun with, play with, and cry with when you need to.

 I doubt I can live without love, affection, intimacy, and a close connection with another human being and be happy. It's just not in my make up to live a solitary life, and be happy, although, I try to make the best of it.

Carissimi Carissimi
56-60, F
3 Responses Nov 28, 2011

It is so true to people like you there is some one some were that is willing to go threw ups and downs with you. Some one that has nothing better to do but come home to you ! To do nothing but to sit at kitchen tabel to share a cup of coffee !

I'm sure there is someone somewhere. It's the finding each other that, if ever, is the problem. And I'm not looking. Thank you.

that is the best part no one is really looking it just happens. That is why it is so right.

Out there is any where you what to go

Like the grocery store? :)

There is someone out there for you that wil share all these things with you. Broaden your horizons and you will be surprised what and who is out there for you. Take care

You hit the nail on the head with "broaden my horizons." I became isolated in my marriage....and location.....and I have further isolated myself because of how I feel. I'll never meet anyone if I don't get out there. I'm just not sure where "out there is."

I am in the exact same boat you are. There are only a couple people in my life who know the details of what I live everyday. And the out there is not cast in stone for me either but I know I am living in a fake marriage and faking being happy in it but that gets old and real tiring. I am almost at the point that I no longer care what people will think if I toss in the towel.

This is sad. I lived in secret like that for most of my marriage, keeping it to myself. Most of the people I know have no idea, even after 20-years. And I would never tell them.