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Far Too Wrong

Is it soo wrong to want a guy to be "on the same page" as me? To want somebody to understand that I need them close emotionally and mentally, I long for the days where I can write letters to the man I want to love, have long phone calls into the early morning, to give and receive affection without no sexual innuendo and when there is, for it to go on and on , and on, I'm a sexual person by nature, but far more, I long to have sex with one person and have my heart open for them to look at , for us to have a true real open connection, I want to grow old with one man , I want us to be friends, as cheesy as it may sound, I really want to love my best friend.
Diamond321 Diamond321 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 3, 2012

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This is common for a female, your sexual longing can only exist in a relationship of stable and nurturing routine. So many men are captivated by physical sexuality alone that the need for "connection" in the sense of a solid relationship with long term goals and extensive foundation is often a secondary concern. Actually for most men this stuff has nothing to do with their "romantic" urges, they abide by the female need for a long term connection only out of neccessity, if they can avoid it sadly most will.

Your desires are beautifully stated. Hopefully they will be fulfilled. Cheers.

Some lucky guy will find you...just don't settle for anything less than the best. You have a beautiful perspective and warm heart.

The Way Life Should Be!
Your Heart is in The Right Place !

Thank you for your response, but I don't understand why is it so hard to find?

There is nothing wrong with wanting those things. That is an ideal relationship.