Needing to feel alive. Someone to show me that they love me. Just saying I love you doesn't help that much. Seeing is believing. Some just say the words so much that it loses it's value. I need affection (hugs and kiss) . Closeness (cuddling). Wanting to be near me. Intimacy ( making love) not just have sex and that's it. I need a real relationship where someone wants to be with me.