I think it would be best to have an affair with a married woman, for several reasons. For one thing, I'm also married. Many of my circle females who are married aren't happy in their marriage. Who says that a marriage has to be forever? Why should we subject ourselves to a marriage we're presently not happy with? I'm an agnostic, and I don't think that a marriage is something ordained by God. Marriage is a human invention, invented by priests of various religions long ago. Back then religion ruled politics, music, art, marriage, just about everything. This is the 21st century. It's about time we stopped believing in things that might have been very sound 2,000 years ago, but like Dylan said, "The times they are a changing."