I've been married almost 20 years and after being married just a few years sex was very seldom. Now its maybe 2-3 times per year. I would even venture to say the last time I was kissed passionately was 15 years ago. Its been a long time and I have been faithful, but waiting is getting harder and harder. I have always hope this would never happen, but all my friends say they are in the same boat. Is it as we get older the woman just does not desire sex anymore. What is it? I hope I can meet another woman who has the same needs as I do. I don't want to leave my wife and if I find someone who is also married who doesn't want to leave their spouse, then that could be a perfect situation. I hope that little lady is out there.