I Know This Works...

... but it takes time. You've got to be patient, weed out all those people who are just not compatible with you.

The nice thing about developing a relationship online is that you can get a good idea of what they're like, what turns them on/off, and so on in a relatively safe and non-threatening environment. EP is great because you can look up and see things that they have posted, and get a much better idea of what they are REALLY like!

My desire is to find a woman who is perhaps looking to find an online relationship, with the possibility of moving into an in-person relationship. She would be reading stories and experiences, and then come across one of mine. She would read one of my experiences, say, "Hmmmm," and then check my profile. She would then read several other experiences and stories and decide that I am somebody she's like to get to know better.

She adds me to her circle, I add her to mine. She takes a look at my pictures, and realizes that she is getting aroused. She doesn't see any torture, s&m or b&d (maybe some m&m) stories, pictures, etc., which makes her glad; she's not into that. She does perhaps see herself in some of the fantasies that I have described.

She finally sends me a message, and we start communicating. Slowly, we reveal more about ourselves. Perhaps we arrange a phone conversation or a webcam session. We start having lots of mutual fun, adding feeling to the lust. We arrange to meet, and have a wonderful visit.

However this turns out in the long run, we will have had a wonderful, mutually beneficial relationship.

Fun, eh?
jayhavinfun jayhavinfun
51-55, M
1 Response Jul 16, 2010

It is an amazing experience and worth the effort. <br />
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Sadly, we have to go through so many false starts before we reach that special one.