Next Time

I think I will just go for it. Less worry about cheating that way... Plus, it might be fun to share a girl, since I'm bi anyway.

(((Takes defensive lineman's pose to ward off the pervs who will undoubtedly go after me for this story)))
DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember
22-25, F
3 Responses Aug 15, 2011

An open relationship is far far better than lying and cheating.

No secrets, constant truth between everyone, that will help you make decisions about how to go about the whole thing. Good luck <br />

My boyfriend and I are talking about having an open relationship...this is something I have thought about but always considered it "morally' wrong. I was in an unhappy sexless marriage for 10 yrs and secretly fantisized about other lovers both male /esecially female. My new boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now and started off w/no strings thing lead to another, we became closer and moved in together 3 months ago. I'm in need of a little motivation and although this sounds good I'm afraid of jealousy (on my part)..any suggestions?

My advice would be to start out that way, so it's the norm for you. And no secrets!