I Want Another Baby.... But Im Not 100percent Sure Yet!!!

 I AM 23. i AM MARRIED TO A WONDERFUL MAN WHO MAKES ME FEEL BEAUTIFUL AND SPECIAL EVERYDAY. WE HAVE A WONDERFUL 5 YEAR OLD DAUGTHER. MY HUSBAND IS IN THE NATIONAL GUARD AND PLANS ON GOIN TO ACTIVE DUTY SOON. WE HAVE BEEN TALKING ABOUT HAVING ANOTHER BABY. I WANT ONE AND SO DOES HE BUT WERE BOTH NOT 100 PERCENT SURE RIGHT NOW. I RECENTLY JUST STARED A GOOD JOB I HAVE BEEN WORKING HERE FOR 3 MONTHS AND HE WORKS AND DOES THE NATIONAL GUARD TO. HE THINKS HE IS BEING DEPLOYED IN FEB OF 2010. THATS IS AROUND THE TIME OUR BABY WOULD BE BORN IF WE DECIDED TO DO IT NOW. I DONT KNOW I MUCH I CAN HANDLE BEING ALONE WITH A BABY AND A 6 YEAR OLD. MY PARENTS ARE RIGHT DOWNSTAIRS TO HELP BUT ITS NOT THE SAME. ANYONE HAVE ANY ADVISE FOR ME I AM REALLY CONFUSED AND I HOPE ITS NOT TO LATE IF WE DECIDED TO WAIT!!! SINCE I HAVENT BEEN TAKING MY PILLS FOR A WEEK SINCE MY HUSBAND FLUSHED THEM(HE IS A LIL MORE CONVINCED THEN I AM).

I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO GET MORE BUT THE PHARMACY AND MY INSURANCE HAVE BEEN GIVING ME A HARD TIME WHICH NEVER HAPPENED BEFORE WHICH MY HUSBAND SAYS IS A SIGN. UGH I AM SO CONFUSED

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2 Responses Mar 25, 2009

I would wait until he goes active and comes home from his deployment. I can tell you it is no fun doing it by yourself. I had an 18 month old and a newborn when my husband went to school for 6 months (changed his MOS) then was home for like a week then got stationed in Texas only to get deployed a few weeks later. My family is right around the block but your right it is different. So when or if is he going active and what is his MOS?

Sweetie if that's what you 2 want then allow it to happen, you only live once so live for what you want, where there is a will there is always a way. If its truely meant to be then God will never place more on you than you can handle.