I Have Expectations

I have explained to my boyfriend plently of times that it is extremly important for him to cuddle or at least talk to me after we have sex yet I don't get that 50% of the time. We have been together for over a year now and I feel like he should be willing to give me that kind of attention after the discussions we've had. He seems to understand it's important but then hardly acts accordingly.

A good example of this would be Friday. No one was home except for me (I was still asleep) when my boyfriend came over to sneak in and have sex with me. I was perfectly ok with it because I had been wanting it for a while. After it was all said and done, he cuddled with me for a few minutes and then left. I was sad because I didn't want him to leave but I knew it would be ok because I could talk to him for the rest of the day; I was wrong.

He had taken the day off from school because he was sick (obviously not to sick to sneak over and have sex) so he went home, played his PS3 and slept basically all day. When he woke up once again around 4pm, I was hopefuly that he would put aside his stupid video game and pay attention to me but he never did. Once he finally did shut off his game, he talked to me for about 10 minutes and then went to sleep.

Is it understandable that I'm upset? I want to know what you think.
AdorableCaterpillar AdorableCaterpillar
18-21, F
May 12, 2012