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I Am In A Sexless Marriage

Being in a sexless marriage and with the approval of my so called husband I have thought about being a swinger. If you have read my story you will understand why I say this. I feel that would be a way to release the desires and passion I have however know that I can't do that because sex is not what I am after. I am after the attention of a man but the holding, sharing, and it has been so very long for me I am afraid I am so desperate. I don't want to sleep around, I would like to find one person, but I can't go through the pain of it all again. I am a very passionate woman and if with the right attitude would make a good swinger. Just not sure!
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Well as said above, the best way is to deal with your problems firts. On the other hand, in the swingers world, you will fin single men as well. There might be one that could give what yo need. But than as said above, what does your marriage mean when you lay your sorrows elsewhere. Even men are human ;-) , so when some guy gives you the comfort you want, I think he must have or get feelings for you. You than are in a position to choose, but as a I read your story you are not that type of girl. Another point is the possibility it arouses your spouse; it happens even in sexless marriages.! When that happens, you will have the best of of both worlds. Some men as you probably read like it when their wife has more sexual contacts. I don't know your husband, but is it worth I try? That qoustion you have to answer yourself I am afraid.

Wish you the best.

xWanna

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I am in the same boau that you are in. My wife is cold and deliberately withdrawn. I would love to correspond with you if you are interested.



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What does your husband not like about having sex with you? Swinging is NOT about intimacy, which is what you want. Swinging is about everything but being intimate. I don't think you would find too much joy with swinging.

Swinging...um... Heck NO!



As married2bf suggested, not only would the rest of the swinger community have a problem with this, but your marriage would be over in a short period of time.



One word, get counseling! From what you suggested your problem isn't just sex, it's more to do with communication.

I'm afraid that the swinger community would see your troubled marriage as drama. Are you bi? You could attend as a unicorn if your husband isn't into it... but you wouldn't find what you are looking for - swingers are devoted to their spouses.



If I could be so bold ...