Love Is A Decision

I always believed in fairy tales, but it's turned out that fairy tales are not fairy at all. No one ever gets tired of loving but everyone gets tired of waiting, breaking promises, assuming, hearing lies, saying sorry and hurting.
After many lessons I've got to learn the hard way, I come to the conclusion that love is a decision we primarily should make.
Successful relationships are not a stoke of luck, when two people make the decision to work it out, it does, instead of being there, wait and see who is willing to give it all away.
Relationships are not 50/50, they are 100/100, they require emotional availability, physical presence, communication and commitment.
At last it goes down to: "How can I make it work?" Rather than "Is it going to work?"
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1 Response Oct 24, 2012

Well said...I can't agree with you more today as I reflect on my totally f'ed relationship I just got out of. I said that, I am willing to make it work, not is it going to work and he told me in so many actions that he wasn't willing to put IN the work....