Self Confidence???

I think i know what the word means but i honestly have no clue how to get it. I suppose i relly want this because i have trouble forming relationships that mean anything. Instead of telling people if something bothers me or standing up to someone i would rather shut up because i'm so afraid of failure i guess. It just seems to be impeding my ability to have worth while relationships. I seem to view them as fleeting or just people throwing pity at me. I honestly dont know what to do at this point. I feel insecure in alot of areas. But i just want some good advice. So help please everyone!

theshyone theshyone
Mar 12, 2009