Hurting

Me and my ex girlfriend went out for three years. We have been broken up for four months. We became friend after the breakup. She would do things like call me up to cuddle, sleep over, give me a peck on the lips goodbye, and say she loves me sometimes. I told her we couldn't be friends and we should go our separate ways, cause she would only call me up when she was bored, or lonely. I also said it wasn't fair that we were doing things that we did when we went out. Anyway she hasn't talked to me since, it's been 5 days, and i feel like we just broke up again. We both still love each other, and i dunno if i made a mistake by telling her we can't be friends. But i was acting like her security blanket, do you think i was wrong by saying we should go our separate ways, will she call me? Please help!
wantexback5207 wantexback5207
26-30
2 Responses Jul 9, 2010

That's the same for me. damn. I don't know what to do. :( It's like, I don't know if I should let go or this is just a test on how long can I hold on. :| I want to let go and cut everything so she can feel the difference when I'm not with her but it's damn D I F F I C U L T ! ! ! !

Well we broke up cause she would always go out with her "guy" friends and i guess I was jelous. The first year of the relationship was just me and her, so this was a shock. We also fought alot in year 2. I don't know what to say to her if I call