I Want Him To Care About Our SonHe claims that he loves me. That that is the reason he wanted to marry me. Not because I was pregnant. Its not that I don't believe him. I just don't think I did it for the same reasons. I honestly feel that I only married him because I was pregnant. I knew that he was going to be making enough money to take care of us (he's military). I knew that I would not have to worry about having money to feed my son. I also had no where else to go at the time. So, I threw caution to the wind, and went through with it. I'm regreting that now.
He's a decent father. Though he doesn't do much. I won't say he doesn't play with him or try to help. He hasn't been around much either. He was going through basic for most of my pregnancy and was deployed not even two weeks after our son was born. So I've tried to be patient with him. I've done my best to let him slide on a lot of things. It's getting annoying. He's home on his R&R and hasn't done much other than sit around on his ***. It seems like his laptop is more important than his son. For example: I was folding laundry a few days ago and left D in his swing in the livingroom. My husband was out there on the computer so I figured he could keep an eye on him so I could get the laundry put away. After about ten minutes the music on my mp3 pla