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I Want Him To Care About Our Son

He claims that he loves me. That that is the reason he wanted to marry me. Not because I was pregnant. Its not that I don't believe him. I just don't think I did it for the same reasons. I honestly feel that I only married him because I was pregnant. I knew that he was going to be making enough money to take care of us (he's military). I knew that I would not have to worry about having money to feed my son. I also had no where else to go at the time. So, I threw caution to the wind, and went through with it. I'm regreting that now.

He's a decent father. Though he doesn't do much. I won't say he doesn't play with him or try to help. He hasn't been around much either. He was going through basic for most of my pregnancy and was deployed not even two weeks after our son was born. So I've tried to be patient with him. I've done my best to let him slide on a lot of things. It's getting annoying. He's home on his R&R and hasn't done much other than sit around on his ***. It seems like his laptop is more important than his son. For example: I was folding laundry a few days ago and left D in his swing in the livingroom. My husband was out there on the computer so I figured he could keep an eye on him so I could get the laundry put away. After about ten minutes the music on my mp3 player skipped and I heard D crying. I waited a minute and when it didn't stop I went to check on him. He was sliding out of his swing, had spit up, and had pooped. My husband, still sitting in the same spot, hadn't even gotten up to check on him. I was so angry.
ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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well lets see you married someone because your pregnant, he is in the military and went to fight for his country he killed and could have been killed and you were angry because he didnt change your sons daiper. and all of the sudden he is a bad father. i am sorry but you need to work on yourself because he sound just fine to me...

well lets see you married someone because your pregnant, he is in the military and went to fight for his country he killed and could have been killed and you were angry because he didnt change your sons daiper. and all of the sudden he is a bad father. i am sorry but you need to work on yourself because he sound just fine to me...

wish i could tell you it will get better but really do not think it iwll