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I Want My Husband to Care About Our Marriage

Can Anyone Please Help With Tips?

By: leeonnas
Written on November 18th, 2011
By: leeonnas
Age: 26-30 , Female
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  • casalilly

    i am sorry to hear about your ordeal. I am not sure what you meant by saying you" went through physical abuse..." I honestly believe that two happy households are better than 1 unhappy one. some women stay in a bad marriage for the sake of the kids. It is wrong,, because you end up resentful, angry, unhappy, less tolerent, impatient, etc... kids deserve better. If you meant he physically abused you, then RUN. Not worth it, no matter how young are your kids. You do not want something bad happening to you and your kids being raised by another woman!

    You are worth it. you deserve a better life. yur kids deserve better environment anf happier household. You seem to be intelligent and resourseful ( you said you work from home...) so, have a strategy and make your move. do not sacrifice any more time with him.

    Wish you the best

    Jul 17, 2012
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  • lostlady618

    I'm so sorry sweetie, you sound like a nice person whose life is unfulfilled in almost every way. It is my opinion that you need to start working on getting job skills for the inevitable divorce. Plan ahead, do it now while he'll still be paying for classes or whatever. Just get yourself a way to make a living and give yourself time to grieve the end of your relationship. He does not sound like someone who is at all interested in family, so get out young while you still have some energy. Sorry, I know this isn't what you want to hear, but in my opinion, the spiral from physical abuse to barely concealed anger is dangerous, for you and your kids, so start making plans for a better future.

    Feb 27, 2012
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