My wife’s ex boyfriend (Derek) has been suggestively contacting her on Facebook. They were friends-with-benefits for years, but never actually had sex (she sucked him off on several occasions). Now, it’s obvious that he wants to **** her, and she feels the same. She wants to “tick off” that unchecked box in her past. I wouldn’t mind if it became a regular thing, mainly because it’s low-risk (he’s only in the country once a year for Christmas at home). Her issue is that she’s put on weight since he last saw her naked.