It's Just.. I Dunno

Well, *clears throat* I can't talk to women to save my life.. im freakin 20 years old for crying out loud.. I dunno I just thought it would get better for me by this time now but nothing has changed. People tell me not to think negatively, stand up straight, chin up.. you know to have confidence in myself. That all goes out of the window when I look in the mirror. I feel that I am DEVASTATINGLY HORRENDOUS.. to where if you saw me you wouldn't look in my general direction for like..... ever. I'm just tired of feeling inadequate you know? The void just hurts so much.. So my question is how am I supposed to deal with this intense feeling of self-worthlessness when I am talking to women, or just in general?

 

Any reply is appreciated. Thank You..

JVC2000 JVC2000
18-21, M
3 Responses Feb 23, 2010

well u need to stop putting yourself down come on your a man dont be such a wussy just start talking to women i dont care what they look like just talk look at the inner beauty you cant stay a virgin forever

well u need to stop putting yourself down come on your a man dont be such a wussy just start talking to women i dont care what they look like just talk look at the inner beauty you cant stay a virgin forever

I always looked the other direction as the same way you did but you know eveything that seems to be inadequate can lead you in right place to move into a different situation. You looing way too close to what you see on the outside and not what is inside of you. Think about what your main goals in life and discover them. On the other hand not everyone has the same story as you do just figuring out where we all stand in between lines but as the day goes by you will always have to let all your feelings go no matter what happens in the end.