I have known this colleague for 9 years. He is married so I am. For the past years we have been talking and confiding each other's with our life stories. There came a moment when we flirted openly and even sexted. He even said to me that if we had met 15 years ago, we would have been together.
After all of that, suddenly he stopped writing to me. I suspected his wife discovered our conversations (not sure). We didn't communicate for about a year because I was assigned to a different country and then I didn't work for a year. So now that I am back in the office, we write to each other hello message and he always says 'see you soon'. The problem is that I really miss him and don't know how to reopen the conversation without being to obvious. I would like to secretly be with him.

By the way, we worked in the company but not in the same office and while we flirted we never saw each other. Please help me. I don't know what to do.
sisi77 sisi77
36-40, F
2 Responses Aug 17, 2014

I just want to have my friend back

I mean u said that you two started talking again. Why bring on the problems of divorces just because u miss y'all friendship? If all u want is his friendship. Then smile because y'all reconnected as friends. U got what u wanted. Don't push into something that could change not only yours and others lives. When someone is married. It's not so simple... God bless. Have a great day sweetheart

just tell him how you feel :)

Hi Riifster, I am not sure how to tell him because I don't know how he feels about me now. I really fear him rejecting me.