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I Want Someone to Care About Me

Are Some Women Destined Just To Be Valued For Sex

By: blindbob
Written on August 26th, 2011
I'm 29 and I've never been in a relationship. I can't seem to attract a man who has any interest in being in a relationship with me. Men are constantly hitting on me, but they typically just want sex. On the one hand, I know that they must find something attractive about me. On the other hand, I don't understand why the attraction is so superficial. What is the line that takes a man from simply finding a woman physically attractive to wanting to get to know her interests and wanting to know how her day was?

This doesn't just happen with random men on the streets. Most of my male friends from work, family connections, or grad school at one time or another have made a pass at me, and often enough they're in relationships or married. They have the woman they take to dinner, to family functions, or to the doctor's office when she's sick. But me, I'm just this opportunity. Why can't any guys care about me?
By: blindbob
Age: 26-30
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    ok, i dont see that, and i do think you are putting a negative where it dont belong.since you are more than likely wanting a child or children, and a loving husband,theres ways to see that come to pass,and it might seem strange to you,but depending on what city you live in and what state,and what you think a guy has to be[looks, money, and ..... well, i can only suggest you do what a real hungry woman wanting motherhood and a husband could do,find one of your guy freinds and ask him to help you with a personal problem and then explain what your feelings are and the sincerity of where your heart is,freinds become better lovers and they also are really good at understanding. i would tell you more but i imagine you have looked at the groups i am involved with and see me as weird,and if so, thats where you are,i am pushing to get the ..... out of where i am and cant wait to find somegirl willing to see things not as they appear to be but more so, what they will be. as to children, i have a policy that i would explain and i did partially on one of my blogs,i just dont feel women get enough from men and theres this barrier that women put up, that i would love to see change.

    Aug 27, 2011
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    I hadn't even thought of the many men out there who are just used for their money. But you're right. It is the same thing, not being cared for and used as an opportunity. Anyway, unfortunately, how I feel about the situation doesn't seem to change how it is. I hope things turn around one day lest I be doomed to be single forever...

    Aug 27, 2011
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    for beginners, i have been there, i was used as a ***** donor and the girl thought it was funny that i was crying, so,there are women that see men as walking bank accounts and its not very kind,i take it you are freindly, and caring and wanting to share time, well, for one thing, dont give up, two, if you are thinking of having children, i can only say that find a guy and spell out your feelings,something very few people seem to do, and then tell mr guy,i dont want to wake up some morning and feel like i was a p.o.a. and i really want true love,if you cant give me that, beat it,that usually works and the really honest will find you.above all, dont ever give up.

    Aug 26, 2011
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