If You Could Instantly Change One Thing About Yourself What Would It Be?

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If you could instantly change one thing about yourself what would it be?


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26-30, M
71 Responses Feb 23, 2009

be more outgoing and make friends easier

<p>My sex.</p>

<p>my weight</p>

<p>I would change the man I married 41 years ago and be married to the one I am still in love with and should have married 43 years ago. That sounds so selfish and makes me sound so bad, but I have never loved my husband .I married him on the rebound. He has suffered for so long, and no he has no idea why.</p>

<p>i would change to being able to sing as well as i think i do!!</p>

<p>My weight of course!</p>

<p>i would stop being so self critical.</p>

<p>I would be able to eat anything I wanted and remain endlessly slim - not skinny, just slim.</p>

<p>Thats easy I would be a 25 year old woman!!</p>

<p>OK, I've got to say this just once in my life because It REALLY is something I've always dreamed of, and this is,&nbsp; for one day, I would so love to be so Beautiful, men would drop they eyeballs,,&nbsp; this is not vain, just would want to know what it feels like.&nbsp; I know I am beautiful on the inside, but, just for one day, to be Beautiful on the outside, that is what I dream of.</p>

<p>My financial staus...Poof! I'm rich!</p>

<p>I would change the way that I interact with people.&nbsp; I have always been somewhat shy and timid around new people, and then over time (sometimes rather short, sometimes months or longer) I am able to open up and be myself around them.&nbsp; I would like to be like that from the get go, having to often thought back in time about someone that I was just becoming friends with suddenly stepping out of my life due to the fact that I was moving to slow in letting them get to know me, and I am left with a longing for a friend and friendship that should of blossomed and still be growing today.</p>

I would have my eye sight be 20/20 again.

<p>&nbsp;I'm content with who and how I am.&nbsp; People who think they are "missing out" and want to make changes to their persons should think about the one that are disabled or malformed and be grateful in turn that they don't have those problems.&nbsp; There are different kinds of greed.</p>

<p>I WOULDN'T CHANGE A THING BECAUSE I LOVE WHO I AM AND WHAT I CAN DO FOR PEOPLE AND HELP THEM BE A BETTER PERSON ABOUT THERE SELF SO IF I WAS TO CHANGE SOMETHING IT WOULD JUST MAKE ME MORE STRONGER THEN I'M NOW SO I CAN HELP MORE PEOPLE</p>

<p>my partner for a demesticated one!</p>

<p>I would become everything my wife deserves that I should be</p>

<p>My age. I'd love to be eighteen again</p>

<p>I would learn to accept my imperfections rather than fight them.</p>

<p>I am who I am. The good, the bad and the ugly. It's what makes me who I&nbsp;am. I respect that about myself.</p>

<p>My bloody mind, LITERALLY! feel if i didn't this damn mindset that i'd be a not necessarily a better, but happier etc etc etc</p>

<p>If I could change one thing, it would be to have already finished school for my Bachelor's Degree.&nbsp;</p>

<p>I would love to have stabble finances but thats not essential I need to be healthy but the one the I really want is to sort immergration so I could marry my bf and be a wife</p>

<p>I so want to be a ninja....duh!!</p>

<p>II'd change my status from "alive for 34 years" to "dead since the age of 18". </p><br />
<p>C'mon, it's the only real way to start over a new life and you know it.</p>

<p>i would want to be more positive other than that i am quite happy with how my life is. i havent got what i've wanted till date, but i've learnt a lot from life because of all the ups and downs and that has made me appreciate my life but i do wish that i could be more positive than i am now :) its really a struggle many a days</p>

<p>i would look like i did 35 years ago, with the maturity i have now.</p>

<p>My age, by about 30 years...DD</p>

<p>My Dimples!</p>

<p>My height!!! I'm a hobbit...well 5'1" but still tiny :)</p>

<p>I would make myself handsome.</p>

<p>My size.&nbsp; I would make myself several sizes smaller.&nbsp; if only, *sigh*</p>

<p>My location......I will be changing that soon.....But not soon enough for me......Please hurry up and get here May.....I want to fly...fly....fly...away</p>

<p>my eczema because then i would get over my low self esteem.</p>

<p>I wouldn't change anything because as much as I may want to, I wouldn't learn anything if I had instant gratification.</p><br />
<p>And I've figured out that I learn and change through experiences, and the end result is more worth it in the end because of that.</p>

<p>Have enough money to retire & enjoy what's left of my life.</p>

<p>I would end my panic attacks and lose those last twenty pounds.</p>

<p>I would want to have wings so I can fly.</p>

<p>I would be less shy and more outgoing.&nbsp; I would be less socially inhibited, because now that I have just entered my 40's, I really wish that I had made&nbsp;at least one&nbsp;life long friendship...one in which I could get together with her/him&nbsp;over drinks and discuss both the 'good ol days' and the present joys and/or miseries.&nbsp; I wish that I had a best friend who knew me better than I know myself; who knows what makes me tick&nbsp;& how to help me with my problems.&nbsp;The older you get, the harder it is to find someone who is compatible with you as a friend.&nbsp; Nowadays, when I meet someone new, the relationship rarely ever progresses beyond a superficial&nbsp;& shallow&nbsp;friendship, filled with nothing more than polite pleasantries and idle chit chat.&nbsp; My social awkwardness & quirky personality have always made it very hard for me to find someone who really "got" me.&nbsp; Thus, if I could change one thing right now, it would be to have more confidence with who I am as a woman and get out there and make friends!!&nbsp; What have I got to lose?&nbsp; Who cares what people say about me behind my back?&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; :0)</p>

<p>I would be calmer.</p>

<p>Dial the age clock back about 20 years.</p>

<p>I would change the fact that I would be with my crush Ricky.</p>

<p>anyone who knows me could answer this one.....MY CONFIDENCE IN MYSELF!!!!!!!</p>

<p>My low self esteem.&nbsp;</p>

<p>i would change my mindset. Once my patterns of thoughts would change; i would be&nbsp;a more productive person.</p>

<p>I'd erase my arrested development, and get on with my life.</p>

<p>I would change my tendency to be quite shy at first.It has lost many chances at romance.I have been hurt quite a bit so I get leary and wary alot.</p>

<p>My insecurities</p>

<p>Nothing I like me the way i am</p>

<p>&nbsp;Wouldn't marry my ex-husband.......I'd be single happy,healthy then !</p>

<p>My underwear of course!</p>

<p>I&nbsp;would change the fact that I need to take medicine everyday in order to stay the positive person I am.</p>

<p>I would make myself a great orator, able to give a fantastic speech on a whim!</p>

<p>I want to be free of the guilt that I still carry around with me.... that is not my own.</p>

<p>My self righteousness! I want to be righteous in spirit, not in ego.</p>

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<p><strong><em>&nbsp; My GENDER!.....in an instant!</em></strong></p>

<p>The whole thing</p>

<p>I would be more assertive and let people know how I feel and what I want instead of always being a doormat</p>

<p>I would want to be able to talk in front of groups with out being nervous.</p>

<p>I would definitely be better with money!</p>

<p>Nothing! Regardless of my perceived imperfections and problems, I like being me!</p>

<p>I'd be financially secure.</p>

<p>I'd be more patient.</p>

<p>I would become imortal...lol ok I would be beautiful</p>

<p>I would probably change my outer appearnace!</p>

<p>I would take away the combat related PTSD.&nbsp; I've learned to like myself but the PTSD is an internal monster that I have problems controlling.</p>

<p>My RA (Rhuematoid Arthritis) would be gone!</p>

Mortality!

<p>I know I can't, but I wish I had been sober for a lot of years</p>

<p>I would be with my love </p>

<p>I'd be 30 years younger!</p>