Will Being More Submissive Make Him Dominant?
My husband and I have been married for 5 years and so far everything about us has been very vanilla. From the wedding to the two dogs and buying a house three years after we were married. Except for the fact that I am totally unhappy with his unwillingness to take control. So i act out. I leave the house a mess he does his own laundry, i throw his clothes into the closet without folding or hanging them. I do NOTHING all day and while this doing nothig is taking effect on my body it is also taking effect on my sex life and my house is a mess! He is in no way dominant though i think he should be. I want him to tell me no, demand i do what he wants. Hopefully by becoming more submissive, tending to him and only him the new found attention will bring him around. What am I to do if he turns out to never want to be in control? Because i dont feel him compelling me to do everyday sort of things the will never get done. Do i just start without him and hope he comes around?