Why I Want To Be Supportive.

I love my husband, I really do.  But sometimes he just drives me crazy and I just don't want to do stuff for him.  Then I start thinking, why?  He supports me, loves our son, and never complains.  All he asks is that I have my cellphone on so if something happens to me, he'll be able to help.  I took that as being a way to try to control me.  It's hard to get to a certain age and realize you've spent the last 20 years acting like a spoiled brat.  Therefore, I'm choosing to support my husband as he's supported me.  I love my husband, it's just time he started seeing how much I do.

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41-45, F
4 Responses Mar 10, 2010

Its amazing how the more you give to your husband, the more you get in return. You obviously have a good man, but to the other ladies out there reading this, THIS THEORY ONLY WORKS IF YOU HAVE A KIND, DECENT, MAN WHO TRULY LOVES YOU AND HAS YOUR BEST INTEREST IN HEART. Good luck and GOD speed. I think you may enjoy a book by Darla Shine, Happy Houswives.

Controlling... him???? Gosh no.....LOL

something very cool...i've been reading a book called love and respect by emerson eggerichs...i'm not kidding you when i tell you it is U-N-B-E-L-I-E-V-A-B-L-E!!! i've been married for 36 years and i've seeing things as if it is the first time...

Good for you.