This Is Who I Am

I really do wanna be a stay @ home mother. I would love nothing more than to stay home take care of my kids & my husband... When I was younger, you know how everyone asks you what you wanna be when you grow up, well I said a mom...i didn't want to be a doctor or a lawyer, I wanted to take care of my family.. I feel like its what I was born to do... I work 2 jobs, taking care of my son by myself, having all this stress & pressure on my shoulders.. & I don't want it.. Now im not complaining about being a single mother cuz I love my son more than my life, but I don't want to go through life by myself. It kills me when women say "Girl I don't need no man, im independent I can take care of my own" yes you can just like I can, but that doesn't keep you warm at night, you still feel lonely, so technically you need a man. Now this is just my open so all you women out their who disagree dont comment because I don't care... I feel like men & women arent necessarily equal, theres a reason why women are more emotional then man, why men are more stronger then us with working hands. I believe we are ment to compliment each other where we are weak. like I said my opinion. I truly believe that kids nowadays have no respect for adults or their peers because there's nobody home to show them.. Kids are having to rely on tv & friends to learn what to do because parents are to tired to talk to their children, not to mention family dinners don't happen much either, you have to be involved in there lives, open communication, I want my son to tell me when he ready to have sex, ill supply the condoms, at least I know he being safe..... So I say let a man be a man & a woman be a woman. The only thing id like to worry about is taking the kids to school, the house is clean, dinners made, & what lingerie im going to wear for my husband that night :) ;)
Nikita8687 Nikita8687
26-30, F
2 Responses Sep 5, 2012


I may be able to assist you to realize you dream!!

Let's communicate Soon - Ok...

lol nice touch "Girl I don't need no man...."

Isn't that why Home Economics was part of the curriculum at one time? Only when the women's movement came into play did it not play such a big role. You should be able to do whatever it is you want to do and your friends and family should support you in that decision.

Any chance you could do my laundry while I'm at work? :P