All my life I have wanted to be a wife. Like my mother, I saw being a devoted and obedient wife to her husband, as the essence of being a woman. My upbringing was one of learning how to please and be pleasing to men, since to me, a womans life without a man at its center is pointless and untatural. I rely upon my husband to give me the dicipline and direction he feels I need, to correct my attitude and keep me focused on him and his needs, doing what I am told with a smile on my face. Should I do something to displease my husband, I expect to be punished. Should my husband feel that I am getting above my place, I expect him to shame and  humble me so I remember what I am worth. I feel that belonging to my husband is being his property, much as was the status of wives for most of history. Being his removes all the uncertanty, I know what I am to wear, how I am supposed to behave, what to say and when. There is a calmness of spirit in being subservient and a real feminine joy in the art of being submissive.


mrsrachelle mrsrachelle
22-25, F
3 Responses Apr 4, 2010

Being controlled this way by a man is such a powerful thing. I think my life wouldn't be worth living if I didn't have my husband guiding me and telling me how to serve him better and better every day. So proud to be a submissive woman, a real woman

Glad to know I'm not alone in those beliefs

Wow, that was so beautifully written. I am striving very hard to be totally submissive to my husband/Master. I hope that I can come close to what you have described. Your husband is a very lucky man.