Not Kinky Enough?

I want to be dominated but not humiliated. Maybe I am confused, but I would love to have a woman (wish my wife were more open minded) just basically use me sexually. I don't feel like I'd always want to be submissive just sometimes. There are times when I'd like to not have to initiate sex and just have a woman "take charge" and basically tell me what to do and when to do it. I have a job that requires me to make decisions and basically be in charge 40+ hours a week and sometimes I'd like to relinquish the "responsibility" especially in bed... Does any of this make sense? I'm posting here with the hopes of getting educated by you all who have experience.... thanks in advance!
frnkdracman frnkdracman
46-50, M
Jul 10, 2012