Choke Me Spank Me Pull My Hair

There is something about being over powered by a man sexually to me. During sex I want my hair to be pulled, I like to be smacked. I also have a spanking fetish. It is very hard to get my boyfriend to treat me this way. So I feel unfufilled sexually. I don't know why I feel this way. I am 28 years old and this fantasy has just became more apparent to me.
sistersuicide sistersuicide
26-30, F
2 Responses Jul 24, 2007

Strange as it seems, you will need to train him to abuse you. Moan whenever he slaps you, even lightly, and immediately do what he likes best. He will learn that roughness from him brings amazing stuff out in you. Keep at it!

Perhaps just ask for a little each time you do something.. then as time goes on and he get use to one thing, add another thing. It may help to introduce it slowly for him.