No More Mr. Nice Guy

I have a deep rooted desire to be dominated.  I am the entertainer in my relationships.  I always date genuinely nice guys.  This really shouldn't be anything to complain about, but... sometimes I just really want to be told what to do.  I know it would completely take me off guard, but I fear I am never going to experience what it's like to not have the upper hand. 

zweetbea zweetbea
26-30, F
7 Responses Mar 2, 2009

Ha! I would own your ***!!!

I have been in the D/s lifestyle for over 20 years and am very active in the community

I have been in the D/s lifestyle for over 20 years and am very active in the community

Share your desires with him and see if he'll come round to what you'd enjoy and that sounds hmm...nice to me.

I know what you mean zweetbea. I have him grab you by the hair and tell you how/what he wants you to suck. Or to tell you what to do and how to do it. <br />
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I'm the more aggressive one in our marriage. But the days that he takes control and treats me like his B****....I explode like no other time. I wait for those days, lol.<br />
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:P

Or that you need to be open about what you want and have clear expectations of what you both want. <br />
I know a lot of Dom's who are great super nice guys but when we're play it totally different good luck

I guess u are just too damn gorgeous so guys try to flatter you to impress you instead of treating you 'bad'!<br />
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Maybe a more older man is more capable to do it?