i would love to meet a female to dominate me. i love the idea of it for some reason.
update: when i met my current girlfriend, i began to be very open sexually with her. I told her of all the things that i wanted to do and began doing things just on a whim. early on in our relationship, i'd videotape her going down on me on my cell phone without her realizing it. i asked her to be rougher with me, i even asked her to smack my *** and call me a *****. to look at my girl you'd never guess that she'd do those things but she has and she is the one who wears the strap (she's a golden star and not into penetration or much of anything else right now it seems)
i love being held down and forced to do something whether it's being forced to touch myself or sucking the strap. it doesn't make me feel powerless or out of control, it's oddly empowering to my self esteem.