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I Want to Be Female

Boys Will Be Girls If Given a Chance

By: Micayla
Written on August 15th, 2008

I have always know my gender and sex did not match. I went though agony over the years tryingnot to be feminine in manners and appearance. Even thought raised as a boy I was feminine in movement and talking.

I finally decided to seek surgery and have begun steps to make my desire come to fruition. I live and dress as a female. I have had my name legally changed. I've gotten rid of anything connected to me either directly or remotely masculine.

I have an entire wardrobe for a woman, slacks (with zippers on the side or in back). skirts, dresses, slips, bras, panties, hosiery, shoes and of course all the things to enhance my femininity.

I date guys because I am female.

I've set my GRS date for June 21st 2010. I had some minor medical difficulties that had me change my date to August 2010.

By: Micayla
Age: 61-65 , Female
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    annemarielongueuil
    annemarielongueuil

    Yes boys will be girls given a chance and that not a mataphor,



    Check this out, this link was given to me by Brucie2:



    Title: Five-year-old boy opts to become a girl

    Link: http://uk.lifestyle.yahoo.com/five-year-old-boy-opts-to-become-a-girl.html



    So it's no age barrier to becme a gurls

    Feb 21, 2012
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    chrysalid
    chrysalid

    You said "I date guys because I'm a female".



    Do you think sexual orientation and gender identity are the same thing?



    You can still be a transwoman and be a lesbian, bisexual, asexual etc.



    You date guys because you are attracted to them. If you don't then maybe you should think about that.

    Jan 15, 2012
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      Micayla
      Micayla

      I was born Intersexed, ergo my endrocinology system is female and thus my sexual relationship is straight and I date males.

      Feb 21, 2012
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      chrysalid
      chrysalid

      You really wouldn't consider it straight if you weren't born intersexed? If you are saying you wouldn't be female otherwise then in a way you are denying that transwomen born with a completely male body are actually women. Basically, the implication is disrespectful and insulting.

      Feb 21, 2012
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      Micayla
      Micayla

      I don't pass judgment on anyy one when I say I am intersexed and I am female I am speaking just for me. I cannot tell ohers they are right or wrong, I speak for how I personally feel. Males have always intersted me,but because I was raised as a male and told that males do not like other males I had to overcome my own personal stigma Please don't take whatI say about myself out of context.

      Feb 26, 2012
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    HarleyBrown
    HarleyBrown

    im too shy to talk bout this kinda stuff to fam and friends but somehow i can over the net coz, i kno i have got support, im bi........and i always like to wear dresses and women hosiery.......i want to be female and if i do how do i go about it? i cant stop being myself and drop dead on my old lyf and people wondering what happened to me......and generally how mch will it cost to get sex change? roughly????

    Sep 8, 2011
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      annemarielongueuil
      annemarielongueuil

      cost approx. 6000$ but that depends where you go, in Thailand there are really good surgeon for (it some thing of a world capitol for sex change), it costs much less over there

      Sep 10, 2011
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    angiecan
    angiecan

    Micayla I envy your courage...Angie..xoxoxo

    Dec 26, 2010
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    AndiSissy
    AndiSissy

    I am proud of you for becoming what you really are.

    Sep 6, 2010
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    Donna39
    Donna39

    good luck have a safe one

    Jun 6, 2010
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    1luckster
    1luckster

    wish i was having that one instead of my shoulder surgury in on 10/09

    Oct 31, 2009
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      annemarielongueuil
      annemarielongueuil

      ask your surgeon to do it all at the same time, you'll come out a new person minus that little worm between yours

      Sep 10, 2011
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    MartineK
    MartineK

    Micayla, I admire you courage to realise your dream. I hope all goes well and that you enjoy your new life.

    Feb 3, 2009
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    Josie06
    Josie06

    Micayla, you've capture me too. i too have always know my gender and sex did not match. Congrats on getting your surgery date fixed. i so envy you there. You are an amazing woman and a real role model for those of us still striving. Keep us informed on all the events in achieving your dream and goal.



    Be safe. Be well. Be healthy.



    Take care and God bless.

    Dec 12, 2008
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    mzdivine
    mzdivine

    I am so happy for you, girl!....Life can't be any better right now for you can it?

    Dec 12, 2008
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