Stuck

I just came across this website, and realized how much this might help me. I am stuck in a rut, and i can't get out. I have been depressed, lonely, bored, and sick of being me. I don't have many friends. And sometimes i wonder why god put me here if i can't contribute to the world.

I am sick of people being so closed minded. When people find out i am a vegetarian, they think i am some freak. I just want to help the animals. I cry for them, i want people to stop being cruel to them.

I am a twin. Sometimes i think people are intimidated by this and won't approach us. They think we are already so close we don't need anyone else. But, it's not true. We are both lonely.

I am on a diet or "lifestyle change." It's not working. I kill myself at the gym, starve myself during the day, but then end up bingeing my brains out when i get home.

I guess i am ugly because boys won't even talk to me unless it's about a homework or school. They don't even look at me. I am invisible.

I can't talk to anyone about this. Not even my sister. So hopefully this group will help all of us and me be happy again.
ChemicalLover705 ChemicalLover705
18-21, F
12 Responses Feb 18, 2007

Girl, you are so young. Love yourself and find happiness in yours. When you fall in love with yourself, you appreciate yourself and things will change. It is hard but doable. See the book or web: thesecret.tv<br />
It is mentioned in the law of attraction. You attract what you want in life. If you focus on negative stuff, you are attracting them. You need start from you, what you want in life and working from that. When you are excited about your life, you attract people to your life too. Hope this helps. I just notice ginadoe mentioned about "the Secret" too.<br />
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If you don;t even excited with your own life, nobody will excited too.<br />
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Find counselor and make good supported friends. Talk to others is important so you are not in your own inner circle.<br />
It is hard but I believe you can do it.

Hon, another thing . You can call Klinic or Crisis Response Service for free counceling. Tere's a 1-888 or 1 800 number in teh phone book. They are great. I know. Take care

Hey, um, Im not a twin, but I can relate to a lot of the other stuff that you said - guys dont talk much to me either, Im vegetarian, and people think Im weird when I tell them that, I struggle with how much I eat, Im aiming to feel happy, yet am bored of being me...sorry, Im pretty much repeating what you said! But I know how it feels to be like that. As people in comments above have said, this is a great site because there are a lot of people who have come here because they feel lonely in life, so if you want, you can speak to me about what it's like, and whats making you feel down, and stuff - Im open minded and a good listener (lol kinda sound like an egomaniac now) - but yeah, although this is really cliche to say, youre not alone, and you shouldnt have to feel that way :)

It's very important to try to think in a positive way, POSITIVE. Everyone has something to offer, and remember it's all in YOUR perception. Get the cd , "The Secret" You can also get the DVD . I believe tht we make our own happiness. Do you see a counselor? Perhaps get one. Try Yoga and meditate. Exercise. <br />
Tace care<br />
M

It's very important to try to think in a positive way, POSITIVE. Everyone has something to offer, and remember it's all in YOUR perception. Get the cd , "The Secret" You can also get the DVD . I believe tht we make our own happiness. Do you see a counselor? Perhaps get one. Try Yoga and meditate. Exercise. <br />
Tace care<br />
M

It's very important to try to think in a positive way, POSITIVE. Everyone has something to offer, and remember it's all in YOUR perception. Get the cd , "The Secret" You can also get the DVD . I believe tht we make our own happiness. Do you see a counselor? Perhaps get one. Try Yoga and meditate. Exercise. <br />
Tace care<br />
M

Don,t you think you are putting a barrier up around you regarding people. You have to break this barrier down and let people come through. Stopped dieting and start enjoying your lifew as it is so precious. I am a vegetarian and I am not interested if anybody thinks I am a freak I too love animals and would love to do something to stop them being slaugtered. Start beliveing in yourself and stop taking notice of what othjer people think. Most important START BREAKING DOWN THE BARRIERS YOU HAVE PUT UP AND IN NO TIME YOU WILL BEGIN TO MAKE FRIENDS. BELEIVE IN YOURSELF.

I wanna ask you one thing, Would it really make you happy if those boys you are talking about do actually come ang talk to you or hit on you? would it really make you happy if you think you are pretty enough? Does it really matter what they think about you?<br />
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Girl, i'll tell you what. Beauti comes from within. No matter what they say, no matter how much they praise you, if YOU don't like yourself there's nothign anyone can do about it. Be yourself. Find things that make you happy. Do the things that make you happy. Treat yourself like the most important person in the world. Pamper yourself! The rest won't matter then:). Trust me. It works.

Don't focus on the negative. Search for what will make you happy

it's a pity that you don't realize what you are. in my small opinion, i think you should consider the search for yourself. if someone was to ask me what they should study, i would say yourself. if they ask me again after they have studied, iwould say yourself. being too wrapped up in physical appearances and this ever changing world offers you very little perspective on your true self. search for your inner love. love yourself. your are smart, so loving yourself for this reason is one step. look to what else you are. be in love with yourself. other peoples acceptance of you pales in comparison to your view of yourself. be in love with you. everyone else will follow.

Its amazing how sad we all feel in our lives, things we can not share even with our best friends. you are not alone

I went though some of the stuff you did. If your twin is going through some of the same stuff you are, you two can help each other with some of the stuff going on.