Things Like You Describe Can Only Hurt You, Like Tornadoes, Job Loss Etc

If you are clutching on to them in your mind.  You would find another job, and you can't control things.  Detachment is not an excuse to not work hard, but it is an admission that you can't control things.  When you learn quit trying to control things, then you will find people more like able because  you are not trying to control them....smile.
Tom