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Wish I Had A Close Female Friend Who Could Hold Me And Let Me Know That It Will Be Ok

My wife and I have been separated for 4 months now, and I really miss not having a homelife with my kids. I feel like a homelss person, living with a friend and his wife. I miss feeling safe. I miss my kids terribly. Sometimes I just want to die. Sometimes I get angry and say no way would I give her the satisfaction of me dieing. She would probably love that... I've tried to Love her back... but that doesn't seem to work. I just need a good female friend to hold me, care for me and let me know that I will be ok.
Passionateheartman Passionateheartman 46-50, M 8 Responses Feb 21, 2012

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I'm very sorry to hear about you and your wife separating.It must feel like someone took a sharp knife a cut your heart out with it.But that's no reason to stop living.Time heals all wounds.Maybe you have nieces or nephews(maybe some of each) close by. You might want to connect with them like I connect with mine. It's not the end of the world. There's always hope.

I am sorry you have been hurt so badly. I think that you deserve to feel loved and appreciated, try to stay strong my heart goes out to you. (hug)

Everyone deserves to feel loved and appreciated. It's always the one that loves the most to get hurt. ((hugs)) to you!!

Thank you.!

Wish I were there to hold you and help you understand that it will all be alright.....

How did a sensitive, romantic guy like you get crosswise with a woman?

Pray it could help you to have peace of mind and heart.....

Thank you Kayblue...very kind of you. I am really down right now. I need a good dosage of hope and assurance. I feel so useless. I have a great career as an engineer and more money than I know what to do with...BUT...none of that matters with out someone to love me...and without my kids in my arms.

im sorry you're so down... but remember that this too shall pass..
and you're right, money can't buy happiness or a peaceful heart, i truly believe that with all my heart...

~bless your heart...its really hard going through a separation....especially when there are children heart goes out to you. if you need to talk, feel free to mail me...i must say up front that i am in a relationship of 6 yrs. but i would love to be friends and im a pretty good listener...=) <br />
take it one day at a time dear....<br />
all the best~