Me and my husband have just been on the phone and I got really really upset. Just talking about all the pain and hurt we've causwd each other over the past - I can't let it go. He hurt me so badly, and I hurt him, he seems to be able to move on though and I can't. I want to, I want to forget, but I always bring it up and I know I can't keep doing it. We have been so much better but I'm going to ruin it all by going on and on about the past - and it's not like any of us can change it............ any one have any tips on how to move on together in a relationship after there has been a lot of hurt caused? We haven't cheated on each other but have both lied to each other, and both done things that make us not trust each other much anymore.