My Dream

Ever since I was young, I've always wanted to be married. I always thought I'd be married around 26/27yrs old. My plan was to date for 1 1/2-2yrs, engaged for 1 yr, then married for a yr before trying for a family. Seems like life doesn't turn out the way u want! :( I'm 29yrs old & I've never even DATED!!! I'd love to have a family,...4kids,...give or take,.....a big backyard, quiet, deadend street in a nice neiborhood w/lots of kids that are our kids ages. A neiborhood where everyone knows everybody BUT also keeps to themselves a lot. I'd love a husband who loves me but he doesn't have to overdue it with flowers, candy, romantic gestures all the time. Just now & again, so I'll know that he DOES care about me. So I don't feel invisible. 
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1 Response Jan 6, 2013

I am in a similar rut as you are.
Going on 28, I thought by now I'd be married for 5 or 6 years and have 2 or 3 children.
The acceptance of nsa sex, values of marriage falling in society has made my goals impossible to achieve and I'm afraid I will never find a woman who'll have actual values. While I don't ask for traditional values, having some sort of self respect and morals apparently is too much these days.