I know that a marriage is a blend or melding of two people. I know that compromise is essential. Yet each of us needs to be themselves.
I am tried of always being the one to make the compromises, the one to chip away at himself to be more like you want me to be, to be more like what you want me to be like. I am am individual.
But it does not feel like it anymore.
No I am not young nor is it a new marriage, why do I sound selfish to myself?