I Want To Romance Someone

I have never been "romanced" before. I would define "romancing" as when one person creates a delightful experiance for another person that makes them feel appreciated, loved, valuable, and just very special to the other person. It must be done not for anything in return, but out of love for the other person.
I don't want to sound cliche, but I truly believe that it is better to give than receive. I have had the opportunity to "romance" a young woman, and it was some of the happiest times of my life. I believe that if we spend our time seeking things for ourselves we will shrivel up and become dead inside, but in giving to others we truly grow.
I would like to have a girlfriend again, not just so I can get something, but to share the overflow of my heart. I feel selfish when I do something just for me, and I want someone to share my life with. Whether it is an elaborate evening or just an ice cream cone, it seems empty by myself.

Do I sound crazy?
LoveHurtLearnGrow LoveHurtLearnGrow
22-25, M
3 Responses May 24, 2012

how i wish i did found you before i got married...yhe kind of man most woman want or need...hoping u will find a woman that will love u more

It takes a real man to romance a woman. And, with your ex<x>pression of the desire to you possess to romance a woman, I am sure, you will soon find THE WOMAN for yourself. Good luck!! :)

No, you don't sound crazy. I crave romance in my life too when I do not have it.