I Really Do - Not Even Everyday ....

I am not sexually satisfied in my relationship with my husband.  I want to be - but there are some things missing in my life too. 

I have a hard time having an ****** - and I don't with him.  I can by myself, and I can't with him.  I think the biggest challenge that I have is lack of communication when it comes to sex with my husband.

I've started opening up, and talking to him about what I need - emotionally and physically to be satisfied.  It's still a work in progress, but at least it is a start.

One thing that he does that I like immensely is when he kissses my breasts - I love that.  That is definitely a move in the right direction.

But - I am really trying to get him to open up sexually  -- he is extremely reserved - but - there is hope!


MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72
36-40, F
7 Responses Nov 17, 2008

That's a shame the physical intimacy coupled with the eroticism is an absolute must; I live to make the ****** the ultimate

I wish you luck and many *******!

Nothing can cure the soul but the senses. -- Oscar Wilde

Oh - WOW. Your wife - incredibly lucky, LUCKY lady.<br />
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I have to say -- I'm going to write this down Ed, memorize it, and try to provide a roadmap to my mate .... <br />
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Ugh ... I really need to have sex -- not even sex per se -- I just need to have an ******!!!!

My wife never fails to achive the big O. <br />
I always start by kissing her sweetly, her lips, her neck, and then when she starts moaning, I move to her breasts. I suck each nipple tenderly while massaging the other one. At times I engulf as much of her breast in my mouth as I can and return to flicking my tongue over her nipples. I bring my hand to her honey pot and slide a finger along her slit. She is already wet from the breast play. I push a finger inside and play with her clitty with my thumb at the same time, while also sucking her breasts. I bring her favorite toy into the mix and use it on her clitty while I bury myself deep within her. In no time she starts having a long ******, which usually lasts for 4 or 5 minuites. At this point she is screaming and I flip her over and enter her from behind, reaching arround her to play with her **** as I pound her long and hard. At this time we usually both *** together (a second one for here). We hug and fall asleep in each others arms. <br />
Ed in VA

have you tried ABF? it may help

30 years with her and I am still clumsy and ignorant. I need her to tell me what to do and when to do it. I can’t always oblige (faster and harder after 15+ minutes just makes me think that she’s fantasizing about the insurance policy) but her boobs are always a mystery to me and her box is too big for me to hit all the right spots properly without a “Garmin”. I suspect that virtually every man wants to be the most amazing lover we can be, so I’d bet your husband will be grateful for the coaching! :)