I Want My Wife To Spank Me!I have read so very many stories , mostly from men who want to be spanked, and fewer from women (maybe) who want to spank. We must all see that spanking is not the issue, control is. Power is the issue. Spankings are not sexy, control and power are.
I don't really want to be spanked. I don't fantasize about being hit or feeling pain...independent of the control. It is definitely being under my wife's control that I crave. You see, I want her to be fully expressive, strong, having everything she wants...because I love her! I want her to be unrepressed and confident.
Spanking is such a pure, direct, archetypal form of control, and I want my wife to exhibit this control both in her home and in public. THIS IS WHAT I WANT. I want what a severe spanking represents. When she swats or kicks my rear in public, I feel a flush, a rush, a wash of contentment flow over and through me. My greater size and strength become worthless. People can see her kick my buttocks, and see me accept it willingly, unflinchingly. Rather than resist or complain, I instead eagerly step ahead to hold the door, or apologize for what I did or said to bring on the kick. I'd never hint at indignation, I'd only apologize to reinforce her appropriate action. I would even thank her for teaching me or correcting me.
I would eagerly and readily accept any public display of dominance by my wife in order to proudly demonstrate my submission. I don't like tape on my mouth, but would love to have my wife say in public, or before friends "you need to hush up for a while" and then firmly press a length of duct tape across my mouth. "You'll keep that on until I remove it!" I'd just nod my head, and would never remove the tape myself. She could write, paint or tattoo anything she wanted...anywhere on my skin. It's not the ink I want, it is her control. I'm sure I would prefer a steak from Outback over a can of dog food; I'd NEVER eat Pedigree on my own, but I would vastly prefer having my wife command me to "open up!" as she spooned in dog chow while her friends laughed, rather than have ANY gourmet meal. The tape, the tattoo, the dog food...the spanking; those are just worthless things separate from my wife's involvement and her control. I want my wife to be devoted to me...because she loves me and values me and our relationship. I want her to control herself and our relationship. So I would absolutely love for her to say to me "I am going out for a while, but I want you to stay here and wait for me. You may keep busy by scrubbing the floors until I get back. I'll be back when I want; if you've done a good job on the floor I may not have to spank your bottom. Let me see you on the floor scrubbing before I leave, okay?". Power and control need relationship. Scrubbing or being spanked can serve the same purpose of establishing relationship. Spanking can define a relationship. I don't want just any woman to spank me for some sexual thrill...the act would be empty, like self gratification. I would not enjoy buying a spanking. For just anyone to spank would be a worthless shadow of the pleasure my wife could bring. I want my wife to control me, to own me, to shamelessly use and abuse me at her will, both in public, for friends, or privately. Yes, I want a very thorough and severe spanking very, very much. And I want her to love me.