Going A Little Crazy

 I have been talking to an army soldier that is deployed over seas. We aren't dating or official but we both have feeling for each other. I never thought of myself being able to be with a military soldier, but he has my heart. I'm used to talking to him everyday on line. I know this isn't normal for most deployed soldiers in Afghanistan. But its been 2 days and I haven't heard a word. I don't know what is going on. Last thing I knew was that it was snowing really bad and he was working. I'm a little worried about what happened. I have been trying to keep myself busy and doing stuff but then when I cant find something to do all I think about is him. I don't know what to do at this point. Any suggestions?

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2 Responses Mar 8, 2010

I'm about to be in the same boat as you. My nonboyfriend boyfriend is leaving feb. 1st, 2011. Even though I'm dreading it, I'm ready for it to be over so we can be together! Anyways, my brother and some friends have been deployed. Sometimes they can't talk for weeks. No news is good news. Does your boy have a webcam? They are the best investment I can think of during a deployment. Anyways, good luck, girl!

I met my husband over 2 years ago online, and like you we talked everyday. But every so often it would go a few days without hearing anything from him. Try and stay positive and busy< its a long bumpy road but so worth it in the end. We did go our separate ways and when he returned home we reconnected and we eloped this past December. It was worth the lonely sad times, I couldnt imagine life without my husband he is the most amazing man I have ever had the honor of knowing. Keep your head up and stay strong he needs that from you. If its meant to be it will happen