Only One Understand Me Is The Whole World For Me

yes.. one person will be enough for me & worth the whole world. i need that one who understand my heart, my needs to love..respect..careing and to have me as his priority number one in life. i feel that i deserve this thing since i havent felt with the closest persons in my life. i have so much love in me and and i know i can give so much of love for that person who can get me for who iam inside and love me the way make him understand me the most..

heartoverwaves heartoverwaves
26-30, F
2 Responses Mar 6, 2010

thank u Simple simonette for ur great comments. it helps alot. i defenetly will learn something from ur exeperience in the matter and i guess u r right that understanding myself and accept it is the key. and it comes first, but still u need a support and a loving person to hand u a help to get through ur way of exeploring urself safely. i really like what u have wrote and will consider it. hope things is going better with ur life too. thanks again

This really spoke to me because I know how you feel. I've felt that way most of my life - no need to bore you with my dysfunctional family stories - but I feel how you were raised contributes a lot to not feeling understood.<br />
What I've learned in my life though - after getting finding a guy who could love me and marrying him, after having children of my own - was the best way to feel understood is understanding yourself. I think what really motivates our behavior is hidden beneath a mountain of extraneous emotions. Few people take the time to identify the true meaning behind their feelings, it is so much easier to go with the first emotional response.<br />
I'm not trying to take away from how you feel - I've been there and done that - but even meeting the perfect guy for me did not remove my need to be understood. It wasn't until I began the journey to understand myself that I felt completely me.<br />
Good luck in your life.