Tomorrow...The relationship isn't really going anywhere... but he seems to think it is more serious than it is. (Really, sometimes we don't even meet up for ages, or even speak on the phone - and it's not like it's long distance! But he seems to think it is going well...) I phoned him and did the whole serious "we need to talk thing" and arranged to meet up. I think talking over the phone is not that great because we can assume that the other person gets what we mean - but they really don't! From the tone of the call, I thought he might realise that I wasn't too happy about things, but at the end of the call he said he would be really excited to see me. I feel like crap about this (especially after that last comment), but we just aren't right for each other and I don't want to continue having a "relationship" with him. The last time we met up he said some very immature things about relationships and women, and I really can't see a future with someone who thinks like this. We are meeting tomorrow, so I guess I am going to have to do it then. I feel a bit sick every time I think about it :( I know he will be sad and angry, but I think we can both find people who are more suited to each of us.
Hugs to anyone else going through this. It sucks when the other person ends a relationship, but it is also really awful to have to go ahead and end it too :(