I Am New At This.I am new at this so I dont know if I want to be a true to definition transgender or not. I do want something though. I am tired of fighting it. Ultimately I would love to live as a woman but I wont go that far because of family. I know that some adive will be against my feelings and I will be happy to discuss that when it comes up. I want to start dressing as a female more and eventually come out to my wife. I do not like men and dont want the operation, just to have no body hair and have breasts. Maybe pass as a very ugly woman, lol. If I had been born a girl, I would have loved it but that didnt happen. I am married and have 2 children so am not willing to hurt them. Something else I want to mention is believe it or not I am not wishing I was a lesbian and am not having fantasies that way, just be a more feminine version of myslef. Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated. Also if there is a more appropriate group i would love that as well. Just want to reiterate, I am not in this trying to have cyber-sex with anyone, just true friends talking and helping each other.
Also, do some women truely dont mind this? I know I have read the stories but have no previous experience with the lifestyle so dont know. Also how does a person find a real life support group for this?