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my wife and i been married 14 yrs, we love each other very much. I am interested in swinging. do not know her take on this. does not deter my love for her. just wanna add some spice. we live in and around central city kentucky. also we are a christian couple. this does not change my beliefs. how do i proceed and broach the topic with her ??
timothy1a timothy1a
1 Response May 9, 2012

Very carefully!!! You first need to let her know it's something you are interested in and see if she has any interest. Let her know it's not a make or break deal. You don't want her to think she has to and you want her to know she's the most important. The most important thing I can tell you is that it has to be open and honest. Make it as much about her as you can. If she thinks for just a second that it's more about you she's liable to shy away. Every situation is going to be different but you know your wife better than anyone else. It's up to you to figure out what she wants and go with it.